Father matter…for boys AND for girls. An excerpt from this article: http://www.itscheating.com/relationships/how-your-dad-determines-your-adult-relationships-with-men/ Psychologists traditionally focus on the mother/child relationships and mostly ignore fathers, especially the father/daughter relationship. However, new research is increasingly concluding that fathers greatly influence their daughter’s self-esteem, interpersonal relationships, gender roles, mental and emotional health, and achievements in academics and career. What’s…
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“Any divorce survivor will see rueful reminders of a destructive process. Any engaged couple should see it, period….” – Colin Covert Minneapolis Star Tribune “Documentary tackles the divorce industry with the same zeal as the lawyers it rebukes….” – Eric Monder Film Journal International “Infuriating, but lacking the balance to be the take-down of a corrupt system that it…
Read moreThe Calm After The Storm – Your Relationship With Your Ex After Divorce
When will things get better. Does this ever end? Those were two things I asked several men while I was going through my divorce. Many of them said, “NO!” I say yes. But, only if certain things take place before you get divorced. If I had allowed state mandated child supports payments or alimony to…
Read moreDeadbeat Parents? State-Mandated Child Support Hurts The Ones It’s Supposed To Help
An excerpt from this article: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ellen-kellner/deadbeat-parents-stateman_b_2839817.html By Ellen Kellner – Mindful thinker and author of ‘The Pro Child Way®: Parenting with an Ex’ Divorce attorneys are familiar with the child-support focus of their clients. “It’s the elephant in the room”, says one Palm Springs attorney who is a Certified Family Law Specialist. The custodial parent facing divorce wants to know “how much?” regarding…
Read moreDr. Drew on Divorce Corp
You guys have NO idea what is going on in family court…or maybe you do… and want the gravy train to continue. I don’t. I know through personal experience the amount of devastation that divorce industry, the federal/state child support system and antiquated lifetime alimony promises causes to families, children and communities. I am dedicating…
Read moreFatherlessness Begets Fatherlessness
An excerpt from this article: http://online.wsj.com/news/articles/SB10001424052702303433304579304493099001588?mod=WSJ_Opinion_MIDDLETopOpinion The Moralistic Fallacy – by JAMES TARANTO How value judgments cloud social thought. It may be true that fatherlessness begets fatherlessness, but widespread illegitimacy is a recent phenomenon whose ultimate causes demand inquiry. In his landmark 1965 report, “The Negro Family: A Case for National Action,” Daniel Patrick Moynihan observed that…
Read moreMale and Female Brains Really Are Built Differently
Seriously, do people really think our brains are the same? Wow. Stephen Pinker tells it like it is: From The Blank Slate by Stephen Pinker: “Equity feminism is a moral doctrine about equal treatment that makes no commitments regarding open empirical issues in psychology or biology. Gender feminism is an empirical doctrine committed to three…
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Do women really make men better or do men make WOMEN better?
Interesting: This idea that a womanly presence can soften the menfolk has a long history in literature and myth – remember Pocahontas interceding before her father for John Smith’s life? But it is strange – and not necessarily positive – to see it borne out by science. But what about the other piece of the…
Read moreWhy good women stay with bad men – OXYTOCIN
What is oxytocin? It’s one of our many hormones. Both men and women have it, and while its exact purpose is still unclear, it increases in our systems during orgasm and during childbirth – it’s what bonds mothers to their babies. Is it him or the oxytocin that I’m attracted to? Oxytocin has been found…
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