One day we will all see child support for what it really is…a transfer of money from fathers to mothers. It has nothing to do with supporting children. I have been saying this over and over and over again. Here is yet another example of why I feel child support laws need SERIOUS reform. From…
Read moreWomen: STOP GETTING DRUNK!
Young women are getting a distorted message that their right to match men drink for drink is a feminist issue. A well-known feminist dissident Camille Paglia one wrote: For a decade feminists have drilled their disciples to say “Rape is a crime of violence but not sex.” This sugarcoated Shirley Temple nonsense has exposed young…
Read moreThe Myth Of The Deadbeat Dad
From the wild Irish slums of the 19th-century Eastern seaboard, to the riot-torn suburbs of Los Angeles, there is one unmistakable lesson in American history: a community that allows large numbers of young men to grow up in broken families, dominated by women, never acquiring any stable relationship to male authority, never acquiring any set…
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Marriage-is it really all about the money?
I’ve said to several people that in order for things to change in our culture, it has to affect WOMEN. Divorce, child support and alimony financially destroy men temporarily, but hurt women in the long run. Listen to the perspective of a woman who finally is seeing the light. D.I.V.O.R.C.E. spells disaster for too many…
Read moreEl Paso attorney uses controversial ad to warn men about child support
I have been saying the same thing for years. I’m glad someone like this lawyer made an advertisement like this. We need a more assertive approach to dismantling the nonsense they call “child support.” Child support has very little to do with children or supporting them. It’s time to tell the truth about this wretched…
Read moreHappy Father’s Day, MOM!
Originally posted on June 12, 2013 on A Voice for Men Father’s Day cards for mothers. Yes you read this correctly. At first I thought it was a joke, but I learned that it was all too real. This line of cards was inducted into the Greeting Card Hall-of-Shame by Hallmark in 2011. Their target audience is…
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Problems with being a male
I saw this on a Tumblr page and had to re-blog: Problems with being a male: 1) Having emotions is seen as weakness 2) Admitting weakness is seen as an even greater weakness 3) Being called a sexual deviant or a pervert because you were expressing your sexuality 4) A girl beating you in any…
Read moreWhy I REFUSE To Pay Child Support
When people ask me how can I be divorced with two children and pay no child support, I tell them I took a cue from Nancy Reagan; I “just said no.” I took the road less traveled. One that more men should be allowed to travel. For the past 16 years, I have been…
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