8 Reasons Why Fathers Matter

A few years ago, I asked one of my closest friends an interesting question. Why would anyone think I wasn’t essential for the proper rearing of my children? Many often assume that after a divorce, the mother gets the children, and the father leaves and pays child support. The dad visits his kids every other…

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Do You Have To Pay Child Support? No! You can opt-out.

When people ask me how I can be divorced with two children and pay no child support, I tell them I took a cue from Nancy Reagan; I “just said no.” I took the road less traveled. I’ve been fortunate to be a full-time musician for the past twenty-three years. Since our daughter’s birth in…

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