I’ve said to several people that in order for things to change in our culture, it has to affect WOMEN. Divorce, child support and alimony financially destroy men temporarily, but hurt women in the long run. Listen to the perspective of a woman who finally is seeing the light. D.I.V.O.R.C.E. spells disaster for too many…
Read moreReflections from a single mom
An excerpt from a great post on a really good blog: Being a Father to me is one thing, but being a Dad is another. Dad’s sacrifice, get their hands dirty, and get silly with their kids. Kids need their Dad’s, regardless of if their parents are in a relationship or not. This took me…
Read moreHow We Fail Our Boys
I read “Men On Strike.” It is a well written book that ruffles a lot of feathers. Helen Smith nails many topics that people want to ignore. She puts things out there in the open for people to see. I’m glad it was a woman who wrote the book because if it weren’t, all hell…
Read moreWomen go for men who look like their dads
The next logical question is: What do the females who have never seen their father look for? Me with my daughter hanging out a few years ago Women prefer men that physically resemble their fathers, a new study suggests. Researchers used a computer model to show that female animals seeking mates with their father’s physical…
Read moreEl Paso attorney uses controversial ad to warn men about child support
I have been saying the same thing for years. I’m glad someone like this lawyer made an advertisement like this. We need a more assertive approach to dismantling the nonsense they call “child support.” Child support has very little to do with children or supporting them. It’s time to tell the truth about this wretched…
Read moreI Wanna Be Like Mike
Becoming a parent IS the greatest! Canadian singer MICHAEL BUBLE has opened up about life as a first-time father, insisting becoming a parent is the “greatest thing that could ever happen”. The Beautiful Day crooner’s wife, Luisana, gave birth to son Noah on 27 August (13) and the star admits he adores the newborn. In…
Read moreWhy get married at all?
I have just a few questions….why should any man get married? What is in it for men to get married? As soon as those questions are answered, you might find out why the trend in shacking up is happening. There is a new article in The Atlantic that shows the steady decline in marriage. How…
Read moreMoynihan of the Moynihan Report
This was written in 1966. What has changed since? Have things improved in the black community with the government’s assistance? Moreover, the Moynihan Report noted that first-graders without fathers in the home have I.Q.’s 7.5 per cent lower than those with fathers and that, in central Harlem, where a majority of the children are fatherless,…
Read moreHappy Father’s Day, MOM!
Originally posted on June 12, 2013 on A Voice for Men Father’s Day cards for mothers. Yes you read this correctly. At first I thought it was a joke, but I learned that it was all too real. This line of cards was inducted into the Greeting Card Hall-of-Shame by Hallmark in 2011. Their target audience is…
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